i was discussing the other day about how parents often don't like their children calling them by their first name, as that seems to 'take away' the authority the parent 'has'.
so this shows the hierarchic construct the parent-child relationship consists of and exists as - whereby parents fear to no longer have 'power' over their children / fear to no longer have 'authority and control' over their creation.
this shows that parents/we are not one and equal to our 'creations', otherwise there would exist no fear.
in fear, one is 'inferior', and then attempt to 'overcome' this 'problem' through projected 'superiority'.
here the whole problem of polarity and separation is revealed, as well as the problem with our definition of things like 'trust', 'protection', 'direction', 'responsibility' and all those 'things' parents as 'custodians' are supposed to provide/teach/live-example for their children/their creation.
it is absolutely worth investigating the implications of polarized consciousness -
and that is one of the main points we at Desteni investigate and expose;
because we see that this whole world is based on such role-plays, such power-games, stemming from mental-ideas of 'superiority'-'inferiority' that allow for no real intimacy, no real individuality, no actual self-honesty or trust.
'love' becomes possession when it is rooted in fear, in separation;
and this world is showing us the extent of possession/possessiveness we have come to exist in/as.
therefore we must re-evaluate our concept(s) of 'love' and our entire concept of 'creation' -- to get ourselves and this world to a point of equality, to a point of equilibrium, within and as which we'll be able to establish actual values of life: dignity, respect, trust and recognition of who we are.
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so let's get to really know ourselves in self-honesty -
self-intimacy -
so that we may really get to know each-other
and creation may finally be something all can enjoy, have fun with and equally benefit from.
